[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/jak-jednat-s-manipulatory\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/jak-jednat-s-manipulatory\/","headline":"Jak jednat s manipul\u00e1tory","name":"Jak jednat s manipul\u00e1tory","description":"Manipul\u00e1torem m\u016f\u017eeme ozna\u010dit \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd um\u00ed dob\u0159e ovl\u00e1dat na\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u011bnit na\u0161e n\u00e1zory, a podma\u0148ovat si n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot. Tito lid\u00e9 obvykle jednaj\u00ed jen ve sv\u016fj prosp\u011bch, a v\u016fbec je netr\u00e1p\u00ed, jak moc n\u00e1m sv\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm mohou ubl\u00ed\u017eit. Nen\u00ed v\u0161ak radno &hellip; ","datePublished":"2022-02-11","dateModified":"2023-05-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ee69a086fc043006d66000ff5e288b6b088fc8fa323128f3849437410a854832?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ee69a086fc043006d66000ff5e288b6b088fc8fa323128f3849437410a854832?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"212sqn.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/wooden-mannequin-g311ea1710_640.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/wooden-mannequin-g311ea1710_640.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/jak-jednat-s-manipulatory\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":585,"articleBody":"Manipul\u00e1torem m\u016f\u017eeme ozna\u010dit \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd um\u00ed dob\u0159e ovl\u00e1dat na\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u011bnit na\u0161e n\u00e1zory, a podma\u0148ovat si n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot. Tito lid\u00e9 obvykle jednaj\u00ed jen ve sv\u016fj prosp\u011bch, a v\u016fbec je netr\u00e1p\u00ed, jak moc n\u00e1m sv\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm mohou ubl\u00ed\u017eit. Nen\u00ed v\u0161ak radno si s nimi zahr\u00e1vat, a ne v\u017edy se jim d\u00e1 vyhnout. M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt v\u00e1\u0161 nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd, sourozenec, partner, tch\u00fdn\u011b, nebo kolega.\u00a0Jak s nimi tedy jednat?Uv\u011bdomte si, o co jim vlastn\u011b jde.Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 pochopit, co je c\u00edlem jejich manipulace. Cht\u011bj\u00ed dos\u00e1hnout \u00fasp\u011bchu t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1s donut\u00ed klesnout n\u00ed\u017ee? Jde jim o to, abyste d\u011blali pr\u00e1ci za n\u011b, nebo je jen bav\u00ed v\u00e1s ovl\u00e1dat? Jejich jedinou slabinou je toti\u017e obvykle jejich c\u00edl, a jakmile je o n\u011bj p\u0159iprav\u00edte, ztr\u00e1c\u00ed moc. Sta\u010d\u00ed tedy ned\u011blat, co po v\u00e1s cht\u011bj\u00ed. Jak ale na to?Zbyte\u010dn\u011b se s nimi neh\u00e1dejteOni maj\u00ed sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor, a to je ten jedin\u00fd spr\u00e1vn\u00fd. Jak jinak. Nebudou v\u00e1m ho vylo\u017een\u011b vnucovat, ale podaj\u00ed ho tak, \u017ee se v\u00e1m a\u017e zachce mu uv\u011b\u0159it. V\u011bty typu ,,Tento \u00fa\u010des nen\u00ed to prav\u00e9 pro n\u011bkoho jako jsi ty,&#8220; nebo ,,Ale takhle to p\u0159ece v\u017edy fungovalo l\u00e9pe,&#8220; a\u017e po: ,,Jsi p\u0159ece moudr\u00e1 osoba, kter\u00e1 v\u00ed \u017ee&#8230;&#8220; jsou jejich obl\u00edben\u00fdmi taktikami. Cht\u011bj\u00ed v\u00e1s znejistit, oslabit v\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1zor, a pouk\u00e1zat na ten sv\u016fj. Pokud se jim v\u0161ak vzep\u0159ete, a mo\u017en\u00e1 se i roz\u010d\u00edl\u00edte, zvednou ruce na svoji obranu, a s nevinn\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem prohod\u00ed n\u011bco jako: ,,No tak se neroz\u010diluj.&#8220; V\u00fdsledkem tedy bude to, \u017ee vy se budete c\u00edtit jako p\u0159ehnan\u011b emotivn\u00ed jedinec, a\u017e nakonec rad\u011bji ud\u011bl\u00e1te to, co po v\u00e1s cht\u011bli, jen abyste se zbavili t\u00e9 potupy.Nepou\u0161t\u011bjte si je pod k\u016f\u017eiJejich slova v\u00e1m mohou zn\u00edt v hlav\u011b je\u0161t\u011b dlouho pot\u00e9, co je vy\u0159kli. Budou v\u00e1s tr\u00e1pit, s\u017e\u00edrat. Oni toti\u017e p\u016fsob\u00ed jako n\u011bkdo, kdo v\u00ed v\u0161e l\u00edp, kdo je nad v\u011bc\u00ed, koho nic netr\u00e1p\u00ed, koho prost\u011b nutn\u011b pot\u0159ebujete. A proto se jim chcete zavd\u011b\u010dit. Ale ne. Vy je skute\u010dn\u011b nepot\u0159ebujete, a v moment\u011b, kdy si to uv\u011bdom\u00edte, p\u0159estanou v\u00e1s ovl\u00e1dat.Neberte \u00faplatkyManipul\u00e1to\u0159i si lidi \u010dasto podmi\u0148uj\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee pro n\u011b ud\u011blaj\u00ed n\u011bco, co zrovna nutn\u011b pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. Tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed se p\u0159i tom, jako by o nic ne\u0161lo, jako mecen\u00e1\u0161i. A pr\u00e1v\u011b to ve v\u00e1s m\u00e1 vzbudit pocit, \u017ee jste jim zav\u00e1z\u00e1ni. Nebudete se cht\u00edt h\u00e1dat s \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd pro v\u00e1s tolik ud\u011blal. Budete m\u00edt nutkavou pot\u0159ebu mu to vr\u00e1tit. Ale to nemus\u00edte. Pokud pro v\u00e1s toti\u017e n\u011bkdo dobrovoln\u011b n\u011bco ud\u011bl\u00e1, nemus\u00edte kv\u016fli n\u011bmu padnout. Vr\u00e1t\u00edte mu to, pokud budete moci a to tak, ani\u017e by v\u00e1s to jakkoliv omezovalo. Oni toti\u017e tak\u00e9 ned\u00e1vaj\u00ed v\u00edc, ne\u017e si mohou dovolit, a proto byste to nem\u011bli d\u011blat ani vy.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.8\/5 - (11 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak jednat s manipul\u00e1tory","item":"https:\/\/www.212sqn.cz\/jak-jednat-s-manipulatory\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]